As a feline behaviorist, I want to debunk the most common myths and explain what adoption truly looks like.

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Myth 1: “A cat will immediately feel at home.”

Absolutely not.
Cats are deeply territorial — a new environment is a major stressor.

Adaptation may take days or even weeks.
Hiding is not a “problem”; it’s a coping mechanism.

Myth 2: “Cats from shelters are aggressive.”

Most cats with difficult pasts are fearful, not aggressive.
Hissing, hiding, or freezing are normal defensive reactions.

With calm handling and predictable routine, they become affectionate and trusting companions.

Myth 3: “Adult cats don’t bond strongly.”

Completely false. Adult cats:

- are emotionally stable

- learn household rules quickly

- form deep, meaningful attachments

Bonding depends on the relationship, not age.

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Myth 4: “Cats prefer to be alone.”

Cats are social animals.

In the wild, they form colonies, support each other, and share territory.
Cats don’t dislike company — they dislike forced interaction.

Myth 5: “Cats and children don’t mix.”

They absolutely can — with proper guidance.

Rules:

- children should not chase or pick up the cat

- the cat needs a “safe zone”

- both sides learn to read each other’s signals

Many adopted cats become devoted friends to children.

Myth 6: “The cat should explore the whole home right away.”

Behaviorally incorrect.
Too much space = too much stress.

Every adopted cat needs a starter room to decompress.

Summary

Adopted cats are extraordinary.
They love deeply because they know what it means to lose safety — and to find it again.