Below is a complete guide that will help you prepare your home and give your new cat the safe, gentle start they deserve.

1. Create a Safe, Quiet “Starter Room”

Cats do not adapt well to large, unfamiliar spaces right away.

From a behaviorist’s perspective, the best approach is to prepare one room where your cat can:

• hide if needed
• slowly get used to new scents
• build a sense of security

This starter room should include:

• a litter box in a quiet area
• food and water bowls (kept far away from the litter box)
• a soft bed or cardboard box with a blanket
• a scratching surface or sisal mat
• simple toys to encourage gentle exploration

Why is this important?

Even confident cats experience overstimulation after adoption. New sounds, new smells, new people — it’s a lot. Limiting space helps reduce stress and creates emotional safety.

2. Essential Cat Starter Kit

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Prepare:

• litter box + familiar litter
• scratching post
• carrier with a soft blanket
• ceramic or stainless steel bowls
• bed or cozy blanket
• toys that encourage stalking and pouncing
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Using F3 pheromones (Feliway) is also recommended to support adaptation.

3. Understanding Scents — the Key to Smooth Adaptation

Cats communicate primarily through scent.

• do NOT bathe your cat after adoption
• provide a blanket from the previous home/shelter
• allow the cat to mark objects with its cheeks

If you have other pets:

→ Introduce scents gradually. Never rush face-to-face meetings — it causes stress and regression.

4. The First Hours — the Most Critical Time

When you bring the cat home:

1. take them directly to the starter room
2. open the carrier
3. sit quietly and wait
4. allow the cat to exit when they decide

Some cats leave in minutes.

Others need hours or even days.

Both are normal.

Forcing a cat out of the carrier is harmful and breaks trust from day one.

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5. The First Days — Routine and Calm

Cats thrive on predictability. From the beginning, establish:

• fixed feeding times
• gentle bonding rituals
• quiet evenings with interactive play
• a calm, low-stimulus environment

No visitors. No showing the cat to friends.

This is a vulnerable period.

6. Where to Place the Litter Box and Scratching Post

Litter box:

• in a quiet, accessible place
• away from appliances (fridge, washing machine)
• never hidden or “out of sight”

Scratching post:

• near doorways or pathways (cats mark social spaces)
• close to resting areas

Scratching is a key territorial behavior — it helps the cat feel safe.

7. Building Trust with Your New Cat

• sit at their level
• let them choose when to approach
• use slow blinking (“cat smile”)
• offer toys rather than hands
• start petting gently around the cheeks

Trust is built slowly and only through respect for boundaries.

8. Common Mistakes During the First Days

• giving the cat access to the whole home too soon
• forcing social contact
• loud environment or too many visitors
• sudden changes in litter or food
• ignoring signs of stress (hiding, hissing, avoidance)

Patience is not optional — it’s essential.

9. When Is the Cat Ready to Explore More Rooms?

A cat is ready when:

• they eat normally
• they use the litter box comfortably
• they no longer hide
• they interact calmly with you
• they explore the starter room confidently

Only then should you open additional areas.

10. Final Thoughts — Adoption Is a Journey

Preparing a home for a rescued cat is a process, not a single step.

Your patience, empathy, and quiet presence will give your new companion the emotional safety they need.

Cats don’t expect perfection — they expect understanding.